Have you picked up the phone lately to check in on your girlfriends, your bestie, your sister, your colleague? Oh, or are you one of those who would say - "She has not called me why should I call her?".
When I see how the world has become today it brings tears to my eyes and I am speaking from personal experience as you all know I love to be raw and real, I am a strong believer in the saying "Be your authentic self" and if something is not working out for me rather than stay there and be unhappy I do something about it or I remove myself from a toxic situation.
Women's empowerment can be defined as promoting women's sense of self-worth, their ability to determine their own choices, and their right to influence social change for themselves and others. You have to be able to wake up in the morning, look into the mirror and be proud of what you are doing with your voice or platform, but if you wake up and you are filled with -Hate, Malice, Grudges, Jealousy, Envy for another woman then you have a lot to learn about life.
Remember- A successful woman is one who can build a foundation with bricks others have thrown at her, I know how many times people have done things to break me continuously but I do my best not to let it change me or affect me deeply and I direct my energy towards growing and using what I have or can to help and assist other, It may not be a lot but if I am able to help change someone's life in one way or the other, then that is good enough for me.
Today the world is filled with people who enjoy standing on the mountain top and telling everyone they have assisted one person or the other, people now seek validation from others for doing something good that is just so wrong on many levels, If God or Life puts you in a position to help or assist your fellow human, do it wholeheartedly and not for praises and recognition because your reward is greater, that feeling of satisfaction and happiness deep inside that you have been of one help or the other to someone is enough and guess what- "The universe will reward you in ways you did not even see coming".
If more women spent time assisting each other in one way or the other, helping each other grow, sharing each other content on social media, encouraging each other, the world will be a much better place.
What many people fail to understand is that each person is born with very individual qualities and potential. We as a society owe it to each other to create a truly supportive environment in which we can always grow and glow. Every woman's success should be an inspiration to another. We are stronger when we cheer each other on - From the Lips of - Serena Williams.
I could go on and on but I am sure all I will say here is nothing new to each and every one of us but many choose to ignore the truth and dwell on spreading malicious energy rather than spread love.
Great minds discuss business, success, events while small minds enjoy discussing people, spreading gossip and hate, so choose wisely who you allow into your inner circle, I always advise people to be wary of who they allow into their homes or place of work because not every energy should be allowed into your safe haven. Sometimes allowing the wrong energy around you and your personal space can invite the wrong vibe into your life so please be wise and also cautious.
Life is not about who is bigger, better, richer or more beautiful -because even the most beautiful people have the ugliest heart, and even some of the richest people are very sad because "Money can not buy everything including happiness", It can solve a lot of issues but it won't buy happiness. Stop with the competition and instead choose collaboration.
Every great dream begins with a dreamer, always remember that within you lies the strength, the passion, and the patience to reach for the stars and change the world, so just do it- Rome was not built in a day. Stop waiting to save up A Million before trying out that business idea, but always remember while climbing your ladder upwards, if you see a fellow queen doing well wish her well, encourage her, don't try to tear her down with your words and negativity but instead lift her up and cheer her on.
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