So if life presents you with an opportunity to help others even if you are going through your own trials and tribulations do not hesitate to help, you never know what lovely surprise the universe will have for you.

   

3. FOCUS ON THE KIND OF LIFE YOU WANT TO LIVE.

 Do you practice the "Law of Attraction", do you believe in the saying (Your vibes attract your tribe) , if you don't then now will be a good time to start. The mind is a powerful tool and when used right you can use it to attract the kind of life you want to live , you can draw the kind of energy you deserve to yourself , I will never tell you to forget your past experiences because I can never forget mine , however I will say don't dwell on it because it will do you more harm than good, instead of living life in regret be thankful for the experience and ask the universe to bring the life you deserve your way ,if it's friends that drain you and make you feel depressed or negative, then it is time to change things ,learn to let go of whatever doesn't bring you peace of mind .

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4. STOP CHASING AND START LIVING YOUR LIFE.

Most people have no control over their emotional well-being. They feel ecstatic when good stuff happens and depressed when things go wrong. Their lives are roller coaster rides: sometimes up, sometimes way down.
Many people feel they need something – more money, new clothes, better relationships – to make them happy. They think: “If only I had this or that , my life would be complete”. Instead of enjoying life, they chase a vague idea of happiness and end up even more unhappy.

But even when you get everything that’s supposed to make you happy, life will have ups and downs ,so instead of wanting and wishing ,try to "Inhale & Exhale" and enjoy life by taking each day as it comes .

5. EXPECT NOTHING AND YOU'D NEVER BE DISAPPOINTED.

We expect others to treat us better than we treat them. We work out a few times and stress because we don’t instantly look like models. We want to live like rockstars, ignoring the fact that only a few people reach that level of success and sometimes even those people are not happy , yes they have money to provide for their every Need, but Money comes and goes,also it can not buy happiness .

I never expect anything from anyone that what I can avoid disappointment when people fail to fulfil their promises or stay true to their words.
I work hard and hustle for what I want and I never bite more than I can chew, "if I can't afford it , then it's simply too expensive" that's my motto.

Accept life in its entirety; stop thinking in terms of what should be and accept what is. When you live without entitlement, every good thing becomes a wonderful surprise. Even better, expecting nothing means never being disappointed.

Xo,

 Linda O Bella

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Let's hear the Opinion of others out there who believe in the Importance of Consistency:

I think it goes without saying that we obviously want positive outcomes and especially in our relationships, but how hard are we working to get those positive outcomes? What behaviors are we displaying that may or may not be consistent?

I was talking recently with someone who was in a debate about one of their pets. The issue was that one of them wanted to crate the animal overnight to keep the dog quieter and to keep it from tearing things up. The husband didn't want to crate the animal. This has been an ongoing source of contention because the dog running around all over the bed at night keeps her awake. The husband is a heavy sleeper, so the dog running all around doesn't bother him.

Well, this repetitive lack of sleep and some work issues have caused the wife to be in great stress and has led to some health issues. After a recent argument about the dog, the husband came to his wife a couple of hours later and told the wife to go ahead and quit her job, if she wanted to. He said that he knew the job was causing a great deal of stress and didn't want her to continue down this downward spiral. He told her that he would just pick up extra shifts at work to cover the difference in money. She was elated at just the idea of his support and that she had that option and wouldn't have to worry about the finances. A couple of days later she went to him and said that she was thinking of just going to part-time, so that she could still make some money so he wouldn't have to worry about working so much overtime. When she told him that, his response was "What? You can't do that. We'll starve. You have to work full-time." She said I don't understand, you just told me two days ago that you'd be okay with me quitting. His reply was - "I simply said that to calm you down about that dog." Yikes!!!!!

 - Coty Evans

Senior Project Manager (Consulting) at Aon

 

"I know of a very personal relationship, where the man got all the love and romance from the female, she goes out of her way to sing to him, send him romantic quotes and pictures, sends him jokes to make sure he smiles, she was such a happier soul when she first met him, and then he made her unhappy by changing from who he was to someone else, he was very misunderstanding when it came to being there for her when she needed him the most, the most painful part was that I saw things play out before my eyes and all I kept thinking to myself was (You Fool, you have one of the rarest gifts life could give but you threw it away due to your ego and lack of understanding and childishness), I remember having one to one chats with this guy, and telling him ways to rekindle his relationship with his partner but he would pretend to understand me and still go away and lash out at her and blame her for things he does wrong, he claims to understand the meaning of spirituality, life, karma and yet he crossed the line on many of those things by how he handled situations in his relationship and he wonders why things go wrong in his life, I came to a conclusion in my mind that things were never meant to be between him and that female because he does not know the value of good things, if he did he would never let trivial matters come between him and his happiness, if he valued the meaning of consistency and stayed true to his words and promises to his partner, I believe he would have still be the happiest and luckiest guy on earth to have a fun, weird, special relationship with this female, someone who believes she is a special kind of different and I for one am grateful to be a part of her world , so in my opinion consistency is very important because it builds trust and keeps us feeling secure and when you are dealing with someone that is inconsistent and irresponsible it really does hurt to see them hurt others who thought very highly of them." 

- Starlet  (Cake Baker, Student And Hair Technician)

Yes! It is very important.  You need to be consistent in your behavior, actions and what you mean and do.  You need to be predictable and dependable.  It makes your spouse feel safe and confident knowing they know who it is they are with and what to expect. It gives a feeling of security and confidence.  Who would want to be in a relationship with someone who is inconsistent? Unpredictable when it comes to doing special things together or giving special attention to you?...yes. Inconsistent?...no way! 

-Michael Thomas (25 years married.) Relationship & Success Coach for Men and Women.

Consistency is so important in a relationship or friendship that I see a commitment to consistency as more important than the consistency itself. For when a person is committed to the idea, they will begin to self-correct which should be very meaningful to the other; and, when a lapse is pointed out the committed will be interested in discussing it constructively. This too will be very meaningful to the other. I feel that you are having a problem with consistency, but it may be your significant other who is inconsistent? If the problem is big, such as personal honesty,insecurity, inability to handle conflict, prefers to play the victim and assume they can do no wrong and make you feel like you are the bad guy just to get you to feel guilty then this is seen as emotional blackmail/abuse and no one should ever be subjected to feeling this way , everyone in this life deserves love and happiness, I always tell friends and family never stay in a toxic situation only to please the other party, lately people have lost the value of "Real Love" and relationship, sometimes it's all down to their past relationships that they feel so guarded they end up pushing away those the universe has sent their way to help heal them and sometimes it is such a shame as years from now they will look back at their actions and see their flaws and realise they should have done the right thing at the right time, I have met and had the most amazing contact with so many individuals and I have learnt a lot in life and during my journey to greatness and happiness, and I always stay grateful to the God for giving me a beautiful life and experience (Good and Bad), because they have helped me in shaping my future, today I am here to advise my readers, to value the meaning of Consistency in your daily lives and you will see how much easier things will be, never become one of those people who look back years later and say these words "Had I Known", no one is perfect in this life, staying consistent could be hardwork sometimes, but it is the effort in trying and showing your friends, partner, loved ones that you want to maintain a life filled with Love, fun, Happiness, and Consistency that counts, sometimes when I feel lost I Meditate, I shut out all the negativity and just meditate in my own zone, I advise couples and friends to do this together and if you have that person who is not willing to do this with you, that is fine, it's their Loss and your gain because you will know yourself and true form better.

Below Are Some Quotes That have Inspired me in my personal Life and I have shared it with friends who have also benefited from reading and applying some of the positive advice from these quotes, I hope it helps you in your daily life.

I do hope you have been able to learn a thing or two from this post and feel free to share it with loved ones.